tastyWeddings are usually all about planning ahead – when you ask someone to marry you, you are asking them to spend the rest of your life with you. Unless you elope, even the wedding event itself takes quite a bit of planning and foresight. So, it just makes sense to shop for a wedding band and the engagement ring at the same time.

I don’t mean that you have to buy them together, but at least keep the band in mind.

For example – jewelers offer sets of rings, engagement rings that have matching wedding rings, as well as stand alone engagement rings.

A Match Made in Heaven

Matching stones on both rings bring the set together visually. Wedding bands don’t have to be plain, boring, bands of gold – they can include designs, diamonds,  and other stones and they don’t have to be shaped in a straight circle: they can be twisted, pointed, or knife-edged (seen below).

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Fitting Together Perfectly

Sometimes the shape of the rings complement each other. Keep this in mind when you buy an engagement ring – if it’s an odd shape it might be difficult to find a wedding band that will sit next to it comfortably, without an awkward-looking gap.

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They Just ‘Clicked’

Or, the two rings may fit together and actually appear to be one larger ring. This is my favorite style of matching rings – they fit together perfectly (just like the two people getting married, hopefully!).

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Here’s another great example- the engagement ring actually rests on top of part of the wedding band, binding them together on your finger.

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Trust me, this is something to think about – I write this as I glance down at my white gold engagement ring and yellow gold wedding band… I always intended to just wear my wedding band but I found I was very attached to my engagement ring by the time my wedding rolled around so now I’m wearing both together. They don’t really make a great looking pair but they have learned to tolerate each other…

And don’t worry – if it’s too late to think ahead (she’s already wearing her engagement ring) – a simple wedding band like this will work with almost any ring:

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